The healing pole
A memorial to the cats who didn’t make it.
In those first days of emergency care here in Pahrump, there was no time for sadness or anger at what we were confronted with.
Some of the cats were so sick there just wasn’t anything that could be done to bring them back. One cat in crisis was rushed to the vet but died in the parking lot.
As life began to improve for the cats who have survived, the Best Friends team decided they needed a tangible place to honor the cats.
“We were surrounded by death and suffering,” said Russ Mead, who organized the first responder operation there. “Everyone, including delivery drivers needed a place to express their anger and grief. We needed a beacon of hope.”
So a healing pole was erected and a wind chime was hung. Next a black marker was tied to the pole and people were invited to sign the pole. The first ceremony was held. Whenever people feel the need, another ceremony is held.
“The pole is for the cats who have died in this place, and also for the people who have come to their rescue,” said Russ.
Almost immediately, it became obvious this pole would be an ever-changing monument as people contributed their own touches. Candles and rocks have been contributed to the sacred space.
“Everyone, regardless of your faith, or if your only faith is in the cats, is invited to contribute to this memorial,” said Russ.
One donor gave a large lion sculpture that was intended for a garden, saying that “This is a guardian lion for the lion-hearted cats of Pahrump.”
“The pole evokes lots of emotion,” added Russ. “Sadness, hope, anger. Lots of names have been thrown around for this object, the peace pole, the volunteer pole, but it has taken on a life of its own and is now just called The Pole.”
Story by Barbara Williamson; photo by Troy Snow